To answer my last inquiry, I found this article on setting
up a child to manage their own behavior.
http://csefel.vanderbilt.edu/kits/wwbtk7.pdf
Guiding a child to manage their own behavior involves
careful observations of their current abilities and planning on what behavior you
want to the child to manage. Another key ingredient that I discovered is
observing what motivates the child so that it can be used as positive reinforcements
to improve on the targeted behavior. Some
parents have and are successful at creating reward charts at home with stickers
etc. to track feedback for rewards. These are often not successful because it
relies on the parent to have the discipline to keep track. The self-monitor mentioned
here may be the solution and another tool to be shared with a parent that may
create a higher level of success. Another
tool to be used is to create a visual display of targeted behavior. When you
think about a classroom environment this is understood. Teachers have been
taught to incorporate visual display into their rooms. For parents this is not
something you would normally see in a home environment. It would be something
that a teacher could suggest for parents to be consistent with home and school behavior
management.
When I consider helping a child self-manage with feedback or
giving parents progress updates, I think the method of communication will be
important. I would like to further explore communication skills that might
serve as useful tools for a teacher.